Need some advice on what to do about my depressed friend (20 year old female)?

No one has a perfect family, but finding great friends definitely makes up for that. you need to convince her to go back to her counselor. let her know you are there for her. make her feel important and useful. listen, i mean really listen to her problems. maybe some meds would help? i really don't know how to help you babe but i can tell you just by being there for her will make all the difference in the world. :)